Tuesday, September 14, 2010

Lizard Tails...

I sat down at my computer, grabbed the mouse and Tristen yells, "Mom, lift up your hand!" After my blood curdling scream, they all DIE laughing.  Cute kids...really, really cute. (refering to detached lizard tail neatly placed on my mouse by Mimi...the cute innocent one!)

Tuesday, September 7, 2010

You've Been Re-Purposed

     Have you ever been in that place in life when you discover you may be headed down the wrong road? You started out with the best intentions. You planned, strategized and organized your life to the point of perfection. If there was a title to be had, you painted a target on it and went to practice every day to achieve your goal.


     Before you had conquered the first level, you became thirsty for the next title or level in your chosen path.  Constantly competing for the prize.

     Along the way things were looking up, up, up! You had it all and wanted more. Fast paced career in an incredible industry, 4 kids, 2 dogs, a nice 2 story red brick home, an incredible husband and tons of friends. You were living the dream...when out of no where, you discover you have been Re-purposed!

     How does this happen?  I have been asking myself the same question for several months now. We have all heard the terms, Renew, Reuse and Recycle, right? Well, the newest term coined is Re-Purpose.  The definition of the word repurpose is 1.To reuse for a different purpose, on a long-term basis, without alteration. 


What on Earth does that have to do with me or any other human on the planet?  Sometimes, life stops.  There are many different reasons why, not necessarily good or bad, just stopped and when it restarted again, you find have been Re-Purposed?

For me, it has been an incredible blessing.  I started out motivating and training adults as a career and helping them discover their potential, to using all my "professional" skills to now build my own children.  Maybe as a Mom, I needed to go through all of the research and training in a career, in order to be incredibly confident and successful training our family's future.

Have you been Re-Purposed?

I want to hear your story!!

Thursday, September 2, 2010

Time To Circle The Wagons!

I can hardly believe it, the first 5 days of school are behind us. We have had triumphs, meltdowns and happy dances galore! My kids have shown me a side of them that I knew just had to be hiding there all along. They really enjoy learning. They really, really do!




I'm Patti (Super Hero In Training), just a Mom with a mission to help my children to become more successful. I'm sure most if not all of you have similar stories. However, mine is special to me, well.... because its about my very own family. Our journey to Cyber School has been extremely fast and furious. Wait, let me back up...re-write that to say Slow and furious. Yep, thats more like it. Slow and Furious.



Over the last 12 years, we have had children in the public school setting. Every day, the alarm would ring (then get the poo knocked out of it! LOL!), our family would rise and start the day.



"Kids! It's time to get up!" I would yell from the bottom of the stairs.

"Do we have toooooo?" extremely sleepy, whiney voices would all chime, almost simultaneously.

"Be downstairs in 15 for breakfast...Shoes, Hair, Teeth, CLEAN SOCKS!", I would remind.



Then, it was, "wheres your homework?", "did you study?", "why do you have detention?", "You want me to sign this for what?".



If you've ever been a Public School parent, you know the routine.



Fifteen minutes later, kisses, hugs and "don't forget your back pack!" and they are out the door. Into the arms of another...



Half an hour later, its your turn to leave. Work for you and your honey.



Eight hours later, (if you're lucky) you stroll back in the door, rush to make dinner, kiss the kids, "Wheres your homework?" "Who pulled your hair?" "What did the teacher say?", "We don't believe that way", "No, you need to remember who your Mommy is", "Why do we have an F in math?", "She wouldn't let you read your favorite story?", "Did you do your chores?", "No time to play today, too much homework and you are failing"....and the list goes on.



This year, we decided, Enough is Enough!



We pulled the plug on my career and brought everyone home. (Except for my Honey, he still works an 1 1/2 hours away!)



It is 'Time to circle the wagons' you could say. In my very first blog, I wrote about, To Cyber School or Not To Cyber School. It gives more detail about why we are here now.



What was your 'Moment'? Was there any one thing that started you on your journey or was a whole bunch of little things?



Are you a long time veteran of schooling at home?



Are you brand new like me?



I want to hear from you. I want to learn from you.



"Help...I'm New!" (voice of Joe Dirt)

Tuesday, August 31, 2010

And on the 7th day.....

  • We are in our second week here in Katy, Texas. There are so many things I have learned just in the last 7 days.
  • Prepare to print ALOT.
  • Use a Daily Lesson Plan.
  • Remember to have your kids do ALL work before submitting the assessment at the end. (they have all sorts of things in there that will carry over to the next lesson.)
  • Schedule breaks away from the computer and take them, no matter where they are at in the process of the lesson.
  • GO OUTSIDE!
  • Sit in the floor and have fun with your kids. We have our desks, but they all seem to end up in the middle of the room sprawled out in the floor for workbook and reading activities. (My guess is this must have been a privilege in B&M)
  • Have a Goodie Box. We have nickel and dimes stuff in there, and things like hot cocoa and mints. They earn 2 hearts on the board for every A and 1 heart on the board for every B. They lose 2 hearts for any failing grades. When they reach 10 hearts on the board, they earn a prize from the goodie box.
  • This has been the cause of several happy dances.
  • If you have multiple grade levels like I do, remember, even the High school student needs some extra love and care. They may seem big and bad, but inside, they still need that word of encouragement to help them progress.
  • Overall, our first 7 days have been pretty good.
  • So far, the score is Melt downs 6, Happy dances 20+
  • How was your first week of school?

Saturday, August 21, 2010

Ma'am, I'll Need To See Your Credentials

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Have you ever felt small? Well, maybe small's not quite the word I'm looking for, how about tiny, really, really tiny. JoJo from Horton Hears a Who, kind of tiny. That's where I've been at for the last day or so, feeling the size of JoJo the Who. Not really knowing what to do. Even you might say, a little blue and confused.

I know what it is, and I know why, now it's the Who that I must find. So I've decided to make a list of everything I've been in order to discover Who I can become.



Daughter,
Child,
Student,
Teenager,
Wife,
Mother,
Soldier,
School Bus Driver,
Private School Teacher,
Leasing Consultant,
Sales Trainer,
Editor,
Sunday School Teacher,
Marketing Consultant,
Salesman,
Church Team Leader,
Mentor,
Owner,
Recruiter,
Social Media Consultant,
Candy Wrapper Maker,
Graphic Designer,
Beauty Consultant.
All around 'Fire Starter'

The ability to perform in the majority of these fields was developed through self education, hard headedness and an extreme willingness to learn. If an idea intrigues me to the point of exploration, I have been known to start a company that revolves around it. Some have been successful, others not so much. In the end, its the love of learning that has fueled my endeavours.

In several of the many titles listed above, I have inspired others to find and explore their passions just as I have. It excites me to see someones eyes light up and the wheels start to turn when they are able to nail down what it is they want to do for the rest of their life. Men and Women devastated by tragedy have turned their whole outlook and circumstances around, just by allowing themselves to dream. I have taught them that when you know who you are, you are who you are, no matter where you are, you are you.

 
It's in this very moment that I am realizing Who this Who really is. Its not a Who, but a What I have discovered, hiding deep inside. A Motivator, a Teacher and a Mommy within me reside.

Hey there, If anyone is listening, if you can hear the sound of my voice.

THIS MOMMY'S
A REAL TEACHER
AFTER ALL!

So, I'll take a deep breath and sit a little taller. I'll smile at this victory, the fear is finally smaller.
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(In the end it is a "very small shirker named JoJo" whose final addition to the volume creates enough lift for the jungle to hear the sound, thus reinforcing the moral of the story: "a person’s a person, no matter how small". http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Horton_Hears_a_Who!)